Mistakes Are Evident Over the past few years Ive had to learn a few lessons from my mistakes
Why we never stop learning, because life throws us so many lessons we learn from our mistakes and grow hopefully.Lessons we learnt from our mistakes
Why our human will might stand in the way. This why I am oten amazed at how slow or how stubborn we are? You’re probably thinking what is she on about now. Thinking some mistakes we make in life we could argue that would have been avoidable experiences, if and only if we had learnt from someone else’s experience or ours.
Do you believe that we genuinely don’t want to repeat history but oh ya! As we would say in (Krio) our local dialect in ?? as it were.
I have learnt and applied lessons I learnt from my own mistakes in my previous relationships trust me , the pain I endured and the tears I cried didn’t need anyone telling me to learn from my mistakes. See link for more related post Www.rahiyas.com
Guess What I Did Next
Prayer was absolutely necessary in my case but not only that, I purposely and intentionally wrote the areas of my mistakes and most importantly the lessons I learnt. Glad I promised myself to do good to me and I’ve been on track so far so I pray I continue to apply the lessons I’ve learnt when I need to.
Repeat Offenders Is it Is may seem like some people like to retake life’s lesson and go through the pain by choice. Although it’s primarily because we believe we can handle the situation on our own and think we have everything under control. So we ignore all the warning signs and just do our own thing.
Which story will you tell There is a bigger story and everyone has a story to tell whether they had to learn the lesson the hard way, whilst the smarter ones escaped because they applied what they had learnt from others mistakes https://pin.it/6sSFExW
How about being real? Like I’m saying it straight up I have been guilty of both, but I’m more inclined to be one of those who don’t want to be scarred if possible, and therefore will probably try to avoid making a mistake.
Life Application. My mum told me a story about a young toddler and her mother, whenever her mother was ironing the young toddler will come up close and try to touch the iron but on several occasion her mum told her not to. We know how children can be quite inquisitive, which is part of their nature.
A Teachable Moment& Lesson Learnt. One day as her mum was ironing she came up close as usual and this time round she dared herself and actually touched the iron and burnt her tiny little finger, she cried so much, she cried herself to sleep. So you see in ignoring her mum’s warning she learnt the lesson the hard way. She was up and about and back to her usual self.
Lesson Learnt & Applied So the next time her mother was ironing she went up close to the iron , but instead of touching the iron she tapped her mother and said “mama hot hot” and her mum replied yes “hot hot” guess what she never did it again, and that little toddler was apparently me. So I guess that taught me something.
What’s New ? It’s no new idea, no new theory, but don’t you, wander at times why we keep making the same mistakes even though we may have evidence that pointing to all the reasons why we shouldn’t do………….(you fill in the blanks )
Why jump in the fire, you already know it’s hot.
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5 Truths about Mistakes
1. It can be a process for learning
2. It occurs when we fail to apply the lessons learnt from ours or others mistakes
3. When pride stands in the way and we don’t want to ask others for help
4. Not processing information, reading instruction well before embarking on projects
5. It can be avoidable
Hope this encourages and remind us to; be wise, be smart, save yourself a whole load of drama, pain, heart ache, financial loss, and the list goes on.
Let the Scars of Someone Who’s Been through the Fire Be a Reminder and a Deterrent for You to Avoid the Avoidable.